Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Holding on To Faith!

February 20, 2007
Tuesday

Robert had another bad night Monday night. We went to Paris for the daily radiation treatment; he had to stop in the middle of therapy due to the congestion, nausea and pain. They let Robert rest a little, then they suctioned his throat and that allowed him to complete his treatment, so one more down and 24 to go. Robert lost another 5 pounds. The radiation doctor has set Robert up with a nutritionist and a respiratory therapist. Robert can not tolerate the Ensure so the nutritionist will give him exactly what he needs for his height and normal weight; it is suppose to be a lot softer on his stomach. Robert will get most of his nutrition during the night they will set him up on a bolus, I think hat is what it is called, it will be like an IV which will go thru his feeding tube. Robert has a long way to go and has already lost 11 lbs. The respiratory therapist will monitor him and make sure he is getting enough oxygen and also make sure pneumonia does not set in. Robert will sleep with a monitor on his finger and we will take it in with us to treatments everyday, they will download the results right there and will determine if his oxygen level is where it needs to be. I am sure you are like me this is way too much information for the normal person to understand. I am hoping the new nutrition they give him will help Robert. I just feel so helpless right now, it is so hard watching him suffer and not being able to do anything about it. I know better days are ahead for us, my dad is coming down tomorrow to keep us company, and we are looking forward to seeing him. Robert can not talk now or even swallow, so it will be nice just to be able to have a conversation with someone who can talk back. Thanks again so much for your comments. Robert just said his temperature is up to 99.6, gotta go do my nursing duties. Love and Best Wishes to all. Judy and Robert

5 comments:

Jyll said...

As one of Chris' co-workers, I wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Unknown said...

Good MOrning Robert and Judy,

The sun is shining and the weather is warming up, showing you that change is coming and for the better. Just wanted you both to know that I am thinking of you today and also wanted to say a quick thanks to Chris and Melissa and their family and friends for their words of encouragement. I know the guys have been there and done this with Chris and each and every one of the comments I read reminds me of the light at the end of the tunnel! Hang in there and remember "the Secret" and God Loves You both very much..and so do I!

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to let you guys know that Beverly and my prayers are with you. I really feel like you guys are part of our family, because we are hurting right along with you, but we know that things are going to turn around.Our hearts and prayers are with you. Believe me I wish I had your strength. Love you guys
Al and Beverly

Anonymous said...

Robert and Judy,
I just wanted you to know I think of you both everyday. This will all be over soon and your lives will be back to normal I promise. Robert,Uncle Jimmy came by the office today and we were talking and he said to be sure and tell you hello and hurry up and get well. He sure hated to hear you were having to go through this. Judy, it sounds like you are being a great nurse.You keep up the good work. I hope you are feeling better today and tomorrow will even be better than today. Remember God will not give us more than we can handle. Just trust in him and he will take care of both of you. Have the best day possible and call me if you need anything.
love to both of you,
Dana Whitus

***Sandi*** said...

Just saying hi to you both and hoping that today may be a little bit better. (Like I haven't talk to you at least 20 times!) :)
**** I especially wanted to say to the Beegle, Hutton, & Mathews Family and all of Chris' friends who have been so supportive to Robert and my sister.... Thank you, and from all of us a huge hug for all you do to keep their spirits up, their minds prepared for what's to come and mostly...to know that you all have traveled this unfamiliar territory and can give them direction when they feel so completely lost and alone. Chris and Melissa... words cannot express how much we appreciate your compassion and concern for our family. Hopefully, some day we can show you our gratitude.
Sincerely~
Sandi